Elderspeak and Resistance to Care

“Come on now, Vera, honey,” the nurse said in a high-pitched, sing-song voice, “be a good girl and take this nice candy.” Vera swung her arm and knocked the tiny cups of pills to the floor.   In their 2009 study, Elderspeak Commnunication: Impact on Dementia Care, Kristine N. Williams, RN, PhD, and her colleagues … Read more

Patient Personality Affects Success of PRN Medication

THE PROBLEM: Because of their personality styles, some nursing home residents don’t ask for their PRN (as needed, or “per request of the nurse”) pain medication when they need it.  The reasons for this vary: Psychologist, finding the resident in pain:  “Why didn’t you tell the nurse?” Passive:  “I didn’t want to bother her.” Macho: … Read more

Old Age, from Youth’s Narrow Prism by Marc E. Agronin, MD

I saw an article yesterday in the Health section of the New York Times describing the difficulty of younger people to imagine what life might be like in later years, particularly in nursing homes. I thought readers would appreciate it. The old woman had drawn down the shade in her room — hoping, I imagined, … Read more

For Residents: How to Talk to Medical Doctors

Talking to a medical doctor is not like talking to a normal person.  In a regular conversation, one person says, “Hi.  How are you?”  The other says, “Fine.  And yourself?” And they go from there.  If busy Dr. Shah stops by Ms. Crenshaw’s room, inquires how she is, and hears that she’s “Fine,” he’s likely … Read more